Hey, fabulous brides|grooms-to-be! 💍✨

Wedding planning is full of choices, from the dress to the decor, but what about traditions? Some have been around for centuries, while others might feel a bit outdated. Let's dive into some popular wedding traditions and decide which ones to keep, tweak, or toss!

Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue

Keep It: This tradition is a sweet way to honor your past, present, future, and those you love. It’s easy to incorporate into your big day and adds a touch of nostalgia.

Skip It: If you’re not into collecting items, feel free to skip this one. Your wedding will still be magical!

The Bouquet Toss

Keep It: It’s a fun, light-hearted moment that gets your guests involved and laughing. Plus, it’s great for photos!

Skip It: Not everyone loves the spotlight. If your single friends might feel awkward, consider handing out individual flowers instead or skipping it altogether.

First Look

Keep It: A private moment with your soon-to-be spouse before the ceremony can calm your nerves and make for some beautiful photos. Plus we can get a bunch of formal photos checked off the to-do list!

Skip It: If you prefer the traditional “first look” at the altar, embrace the suspense and excitement of seeing each other for the first time during the ceremony.

Cutting the Cake

Keep It: This is a classic and sweet photo opportunity, plus, who doesn’t love cake?

Skip It: Not a cake person? Opt for another dessert that you both love. Donut wall, anyone?

Throwing Rice or Confetti

Keep It: It’s a joyful and festive way to celebrate your newlywed status as you exit the ceremony.

Skip It: Concerned about the environment? Choose eco-friendly options like flower petals, bubbles, or biodegradable confetti.

Garter Toss

Keep It: If you and your guests are game for some playful fun, go for it. It can add a bit of humor to your reception.

Skip It: If this tradition feels outdated or makes you uncomfortable, skip it without a second thought. Your day, your rules!

The First Dance

Keep It: This is a romantic and iconic moment that can set the tone for the rest of the evening.

Skip It: If dancing in front of a crowd isn’t your thing, consider a first dance that transitions into a group dance to get everyone on the floor.

Modern Traditions to Consider

Unity Ceremony: Light a unity candle, mix sand, or create a piece of art together as a symbol of your union.
Personalized Vows: Writing your own vows adds a deeply personal touch to your ceremony.
Interactive Guest Book: Instead of a traditional guest book, opt for something creative like a photo booth or a guestbook quilt.

Final Thoughts

Remember, your wedding day should reflect your unique love story. Traditions are lovely, but they’re not rules. Feel free to pick, choose, and modify traditions to fit your style and personalities. After all, this day is all about celebrating you and your partner’s journey together.

So, which traditions are you keeping, tweaking, or skipping? Share your thoughts in the comments below—we’d love to hear from you! Happy planning! 🎉💕

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